Another Mother’s Day

As has happened many times before, I’ve agonized about whether to post anything for Mother’s Day. But since I had to work this morning, and Tom’s on duty this evening, I’m sitting here with a chest full of pent-up frustration and complicated grief. After I relinquished my son, I avoided Read more

By candace_cahill, ago

Still Learning, Growing, and Striving

This past July, Minnesota’s Governor Tim Walz signed the Open Record Law for Adoptees. This spurred me to request a copy of Michael’s original birth certificate, which I was never given. I have been processing my feelings since opening the envelope and seeing his original name beside mine. Here was proof Read more

By candace_cahill, ago

Resilience Strikes Again!

About three months ago, my website host dropped me and deleted my website. No warning. Poof. Gone. Did I have a backup? I thought I did. Thoughts are not reality, though. Yes, I called and begged and pleaded, and finally, after about a month of denial, I shrugged off the Read more

By candace_cahill, ago